how are you?
i have something to say. and twitter just is too short of a place for me to say it.
when i ask "how are you?", its different than when others say it.
"how are you?", is the like the thing you say after saying hello when engaging in a online chat. and most people don't mean it. they say it because its the thing you're supposed to say next. its small talk.
when i ask you how you are i actually want to know how you're doing. i hate small talk. i want to know if you're having a crappy day. i want to know if you're having a good day. because that stuff matters to me. i care about you guys.
so think twice before you ask someone how they are.... because if you don't sincerely care about their physical/mental/spiritual health, you have no right to know what they are actually feeling.
#care
when i ask "how are you?", its different than when others say it.
"how are you?", is the like the thing you say after saying hello when engaging in a online chat. and most people don't mean it. they say it because its the thing you're supposed to say next. its small talk.
when i ask you how you are i actually want to know how you're doing. i hate small talk. i want to know if you're having a crappy day. i want to know if you're having a good day. because that stuff matters to me. i care about you guys.
so think twice before you ask someone how they are.... because if you don't sincerely care about their physical/mental/spiritual health, you have no right to know what they are actually feeling.
#care
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